"One is not born a woman, but becomes one"
About this Quote
Written in the aftermath of World War II and published in 1949 in The Second Sex, the sentence arrives when Europe is renegotiating citizenship, labor, and family life. Women had stepped into wartime work and public responsibility, only to be nudged back toward domestic “normalcy.” De Beauvoir’s target is that rollback masquerading as tradition: the idea that womanhood is destiny rather than design.
The subtext is existentialist and unsparing. For de Beauvoir, a person isn’t born with a ready-made essence; we are pushed into meanings by institutions, myths, and expectations. “Woman,” then, is not just a demographic category but a social position constructed as “the Other” - defined relative to man, kept in a state of managed dependence. The line endures because it doesn’t ask for sympathy; it demands a new accounting. If gender is something one becomes, it can also be unlearned, resisted, remade.
Quote Details
| Topic | Equality |
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| Source | Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex (Le Deuxième Sexe), 1949 — original French: "On ne naît pas femme : on le devient." Common English rendering: "One is not born a woman, but becomes one." |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Beauvoir, Simone de. (2026, January 15). One is not born a woman, but becomes one. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-is-not-born-a-woman-but-becomes-one-22530/
Chicago Style
Beauvoir, Simone de. "One is not born a woman, but becomes one." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-is-not-born-a-woman-but-becomes-one-22530/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One is not born a woman, but becomes one." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-is-not-born-a-woman-but-becomes-one-22530/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.









