"One man's remorse is another man's reminiscence"
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Ogden Nash lands the punch with a neat little verbal costume change: “remorse” and “reminiscence” are basically the same mental movie, just scored with different music. The line works because it exposes how ethics often ride in the passenger seat behind storytelling. Two people can return to the same event - the same words said, the same damage done - and one frames it as a moral injury while the other files it under “good times.” Nash isn’t moralizing so much as skewering the way memory becomes self-serving rhetoric.
The intent is compactly cynical: feelings aren’t proof of truth; they’re evidence of perspective. “One man’s” twice over is doing real work, insisting on the interchangeability of human types. This is less about individual psychology than about social friction: the apology you’re waiting for may never arrive, not because the other person is incapable of reflection, but because his internal edit suite has already recut the footage into nostalgia.
Nash’s broader context is a 20th-century American sensibility that mistrusts grand declarations and prefers the weaponized quip. He wrote in an era of modernist disillusionment but chose light verse as his delivery system - a spoonful of comedy to get the bitter insight down. The subtext is uncomfortable: time doesn’t automatically produce wisdom; it can just polish the sin until it shines.
The intent is compactly cynical: feelings aren’t proof of truth; they’re evidence of perspective. “One man’s” twice over is doing real work, insisting on the interchangeability of human types. This is less about individual psychology than about social friction: the apology you’re waiting for may never arrive, not because the other person is incapable of reflection, but because his internal edit suite has already recut the footage into nostalgia.
Nash’s broader context is a 20th-century American sensibility that mistrusts grand declarations and prefers the weaponized quip. He wrote in an era of modernist disillusionment but chose light verse as his delivery system - a spoonful of comedy to get the bitter insight down. The subtext is uncomfortable: time doesn’t automatically produce wisdom; it can just polish the sin until it shines.
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