"One must learn, if one is to see the beauty in Japan, to like an extraordinarily restrained and delicate loveliness"
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"Extraordinarily restrained and delicate loveliness" is more than praise. It compresses an entire cultural argument into a single tactile image: beauty as something held back, honed, almost withheld. The superlative "extraordinarily" admits the difficulty Western visitors often have with understatement; restraint here is not minimalism as trend but an extreme practice, a cultivated refusal of excess. Delicacy signals fragility and attention, but also a warning: approach clumsily and you will miss it, or break it.
Context matters. Writing as an early 20th-century historian from the West, Beard is also participating in a familiar genre of Japan-as-aesthetic-lesson, where the country becomes a mirror for Western impatience and appetite. The line can read as admiration shot through with paternal instruction: Japan is "beautiful" on terms that require the outsider to be corrected. Still, the intent is bracingly modern: perception isn't neutral. Your tastes are trained. Your cultural reflexes can be edited.
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