"One must marry one's feelings to one's beliefs and ideas. That is probably the only way to achieve a measure of harmony in one's life"
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The intent is practical: reduce inner friction so action becomes easier. If your beliefs say “discipline,” but your feelings say “avoid discomfort,” you stall. Hill’s prescription is to get them on the same payroll. It’s also a subtle defense of ideology. By insisting feelings must marry beliefs and ideas, the quote implies that emotional life should validate the stories we tell ourselves about who we are and what’s true. That’s comforting. It’s also risky: you can “harmonize” by updating beliefs to fit feelings (growth), or by forcing feelings to fit beliefs (denial).
Notice the modesty of “a measure of harmony.” Hill acknowledges the human reality he’s trying to manage: total peace is a scam, but less dissonance is achievable. The subtext is classic Hill: self-mastery isn’t grim self-denial; it’s emotional buy-in. Your goals don’t work until your heart signs the paperwork.
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Hill, Napoleon. (2026, January 18). One must marry one's feelings to one's beliefs and ideas. That is probably the only way to achieve a measure of harmony in one's life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-must-marry-ones-feelings-to-ones-beliefs-and-20606/
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Hill, Napoleon. "One must marry one's feelings to one's beliefs and ideas. That is probably the only way to achieve a measure of harmony in one's life." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-must-marry-ones-feelings-to-ones-beliefs-and-20606/.
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"One must marry one's feelings to one's beliefs and ideas. That is probably the only way to achieve a measure of harmony in one's life." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-must-marry-ones-feelings-to-ones-beliefs-and-20606/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








