"One of the lessons that I grew up with was to always stay true to yourself and never let what somebody else says distract you from your goals. And so when I hear about negative and false attacks, I really don't invest any energy in them, because I know who I am"
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The phrasing is deceptively domestic: “one of the lessons that I grew up with” roots the message in family ethos, not personal branding. It signals that her identity isn’t a product of the political moment; it predates it. Then she pivots into disciplined self-management: “I really don’t invest any energy.” The financial metaphor matters. Energy is a scarce resource, and she’s casting trolls, conspiracies, and tabloid narratives as bad investments with zero return. It’s the language of boundaries, not martyrdom.
The subtext is impossible to miss if you remember the context: as First Lady, Obama was a magnet for racially coded “attacks” that often dressed themselves up as commentary on patriotism, femininity, or “tone.” Saying “I know who I am” is not a vague self-esteem slogan; it’s a refusal to be defined by a hostile public script. She asserts credibility without litigating every lie, which is exactly how you keep your goals intact in a media ecosystem that rewards distraction over dignity.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Obama, Michelle. (2026, January 18). One of the lessons that I grew up with was to always stay true to yourself and never let what somebody else says distract you from your goals. And so when I hear about negative and false attacks, I really don't invest any energy in them, because I know who I am. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-lessons-that-i-grew-up-with-was-to-17444/
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Obama, Michelle. "One of the lessons that I grew up with was to always stay true to yourself and never let what somebody else says distract you from your goals. And so when I hear about negative and false attacks, I really don't invest any energy in them, because I know who I am." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-lessons-that-i-grew-up-with-was-to-17444/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One of the lessons that I grew up with was to always stay true to yourself and never let what somebody else says distract you from your goals. And so when I hear about negative and false attacks, I really don't invest any energy in them, because I know who I am." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-lessons-that-i-grew-up-with-was-to-17444/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








