"One of the many lessons that one learns in prison is, that things are what they are and will be what they will be"
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The sentence’s double beat - “are what they are” and “will be what they will be” - is fatalism with a bruised lip. It mimics common-sense wisdom, the kind people offer to soothe themselves, yet Wilde’s context weaponizes it. After the trials for “gross indecency” and the moral theater that made him a public lesson, he finds a cruel clarity: society’s categories don’t care how eloquently you complicate them. The future tense matters most. It’s not only that prison is real; it’s that its effects persist, that punishment metastasizes into fate. You can hear a man watching reputation and livelihood calcify into “will.”
Wilde’s intent is also quietly accusatory. If reality in prison is unbudgeable, it’s because someone built it that way and calls it justice. The line strips Victorian moral certainty down to its mechanics: not virtue, not truth, just the brute continuity of power. Even the serenity is barbed. When the aesthete accepts “what is,” he’s not endorsing it; he’s showing you the price of a world that confuses conformity with order.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | De Profundis — Oscar Wilde; passage commonly cited from his prison letter (often quoted in collections of Wilde's writings). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilde, Oscar. (2026, January 17). One of the many lessons that one learns in prison is, that things are what they are and will be what they will be. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-many-lessons-that-one-learns-in-prison-37153/
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Wilde, Oscar. "One of the many lessons that one learns in prison is, that things are what they are and will be what they will be." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-many-lessons-that-one-learns-in-prison-37153/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One of the many lessons that one learns in prison is, that things are what they are and will be what they will be." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-many-lessons-that-one-learns-in-prison-37153/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.







