"One of the misfortunes of our time is that in getting rid of false shame we have killed off so much real shame as well"
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The phrasing does the real work. “Killed off” is blunt, almost clinical, turning cultural change into something closer to manslaughter than liberation. Kronenberger implies that shame isn’t merely an oppressive tool; it can be a moral sensor, the internal wince that keeps you from cruelty, vulgarity, or cheap self-exoneration. The subtext is that modernity has confused “never feeling judged” with “never needing judgment,” trading ethical restraint for a breezy, performative confidence.
As a mid-century critic, Kronenberger writes from a moment when mass media, celebrity culture, and consumer optimism were reshaping public behavior and private standards. In that environment, “authenticity” becomes a social currency, and the rejection of embarrassment starts to look like virtue. His sentence pushes back against a culture that treats all shame as repression and every boundary as hypocrisy.
What makes it sting is its refusal to romanticize either side. Progress can be real and still be reckless. The liberation from bogus taboos is welcome; the loss of any capacity to blush at one’s own pettiness is not.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kronenberger, Louis. (2026, January 15). One of the misfortunes of our time is that in getting rid of false shame we have killed off so much real shame as well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-misfortunes-of-our-time-is-that-in-152757/
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Kronenberger, Louis. "One of the misfortunes of our time is that in getting rid of false shame we have killed off so much real shame as well." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-misfortunes-of-our-time-is-that-in-152757/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One of the misfortunes of our time is that in getting rid of false shame we have killed off so much real shame as well." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-misfortunes-of-our-time-is-that-in-152757/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










