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Aging & Wisdom Quote by Paul Prudhomme

"One of the problems of our youth is that the family unit is broken up. When we'd sit down to dinner together as a family, we'd learn about each other. We had something people don't get today"

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Prudhomme isn’t really talking about dinner. He’s talking about apprenticeship: the everyday, low-glamour ritual where identity gets passed hand to hand, like a family recipe that only exists because someone keeps making it in the same room with other people.

As a celebrity chef, he’s uniquely positioned to turn “the family unit is broken up” into something that sounds less like a political slogan and more like a sensory memory. The phrase “sit down to dinner” does double duty: it’s literal nourishment and a stand-in for structure. In his world, meals aren’t just fuel; they’re a time clock for intimacy. The subtext is that modern life has flattened that clock. Everyone eats, but fewer people eat together, and without that shared cadence you lose the casual, unplanned knowledge that builds trust: who’s struggling, who’s changing, who needs help.

The line “We had something people don’t get today” is the softest kind of indictment. He doesn’t name screens, work schedules, divorce, or economics, but you can feel them lurking. By keeping the villain vague, he makes the lament portable: any listener can slot in their own suspect. That’s why it works culturally. Nostalgia here isn’t just longing; it’s a brand of authority. Prudhomme’s career was built on translating home cooking into mass appeal, and he leverages that credibility to argue that what we’ve lost isn’t only a tradition, but a practice of attention. The broken unit isn’t just a household; it’s the feedback loop that teaches young people how to be known.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Prudhomme, Paul. (2026, January 15). One of the problems of our youth is that the family unit is broken up. When we'd sit down to dinner together as a family, we'd learn about each other. We had something people don't get today. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-problems-of-our-youth-is-that-the-80510/

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Prudhomme, Paul. "One of the problems of our youth is that the family unit is broken up. When we'd sit down to dinner together as a family, we'd learn about each other. We had something people don't get today." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-problems-of-our-youth-is-that-the-80510/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One of the problems of our youth is that the family unit is broken up. When we'd sit down to dinner together as a family, we'd learn about each other. We had something people don't get today." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-problems-of-our-youth-is-that-the-80510/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Paul Prudhomme (July 13, 1940 - October 8, 2015) was a Celebrity from USA.

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