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Success Quote by Bernard Baruch

"One of the secrets of a long and fruitful life is to forgive everybody everything everynight before you go to bed"

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Forgiveness gets pitched here less as sainthood than as personal hygiene: a nightly clearing-out of psychic clutter so tomorrow can function. Coming from Bernard Baruch, a financier who moved between Wall Street, Washington, and wartime policy rooms, the line reads like hard-earned operating advice from someone who lived on conflict, negotiation, and the bruising math of other people’s self-interest. You don’t survive that ecosystem by keeping immaculate moral ledgers. You survive by keeping your attention free.

The genius of “everybody everything everynight” is its blunt extremity. It’s not romantic. It’s procedural. Baruch isn’t asking you to reconcile, forget, or excuse. He’s proposing a ritual that severs resentment from your sleep, turning forgiveness into a tool of stamina. The subtext: grudges are expensive. They drain focus, warp judgment, and create the kind of tunnel vision that makes a shrewd operator suddenly act like a zealot.

The timing matters, too. Baruch’s life spans the industrial boom, the Great Depression, two world wars, and the rise of the permanent national security state - eras that trained Americans to treat anxiety as civic duty. Against that backdrop, the quote functions as a counter-discipline: if the world is going to stay hostile, you can’t afford to carry yesterday’s enemies into today’s decisions.

It’s also quietly self-interested, even strategic. Forgive everyone at night so you can bargain with anyone in the morning.

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TopicForgiveness
SourceAttributed to Bernard M. Baruch; appears on Wikiquote entry for Bernard Baruch (quote: "One of the secrets of a long and fruitful life is to forgive everybody everything every night before you go to bed").
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Baruch, Bernard. (2026, January 14). One of the secrets of a long and fruitful life is to forgive everybody everything everynight before you go to bed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-secrets-of-a-long-and-fruitful-life-is-138567/

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Baruch, Bernard. "One of the secrets of a long and fruitful life is to forgive everybody everything everynight before you go to bed." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-secrets-of-a-long-and-fruitful-life-is-138567/.

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"One of the secrets of a long and fruitful life is to forgive everybody everything everynight before you go to bed." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-secrets-of-a-long-and-fruitful-life-is-138567/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Bernard Baruch

Bernard Baruch (August 19, 1870 - June 20, 1965) was a Businessman from USA.

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