"One of the strangest things about being an actor is that people you don't know feel that they are allowed to comment on your hair, body, clothes, relationships"
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As an actress who came up in the era of glossy sitcom stardom and tabloid omnipresence, Thorne Smith is talking from inside a machine that sells not just roles but bodies, styling, and “relatability” as product features. Hair, body, clothes, relationships: it’s a checklist of how fame turns a person into an ongoing package redesign. The strangeness isn’t that people notice; it’s that they treat their noticing as participation, like commentary is a perk of viewership.
The subtext is a boundary argument without sounding like one. She doesn’t moralize, doesn’t accuse, just points out the absurdity of the situation: intimacy without introduction. That understatement makes it sharper. It invites the listener to recognize how normal we’ve made micro-inspections - the casual “she’s let herself go,” the “I liked her better with…” - and how those judgments are gendered, monetized, and socially rewarded.
It’s also a quiet critique of the attention economy: when an industry depends on being discussed, it quietly trains audiences to believe they’re co-owners of the person. Thorne Smith is naming the cost: your private life becomes public property, one comment at a time.
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Smith, Courtney Thorne. (2026, January 17). One of the strangest things about being an actor is that people you don't know feel that they are allowed to comment on your hair, body, clothes, relationships. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-strangest-things-about-being-an-actor-51459/
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Smith, Courtney Thorne. "One of the strangest things about being an actor is that people you don't know feel that they are allowed to comment on your hair, body, clothes, relationships." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-strangest-things-about-being-an-actor-51459/.
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"One of the strangest things about being an actor is that people you don't know feel that they are allowed to comment on your hair, body, clothes, relationships." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-strangest-things-about-being-an-actor-51459/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

