"One of the things that really got to me was talking to parents who had been burned out of their villages, had family members killed, and then when men showed up at the wells to get water, they were shot"
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The sentence structure performs trauma’s accumulation. It stacks clauses (“burned out,” “family members killed,” “then...”) like a witness who can’t stop replaying the sequence, each detail tightening the moral vise. “Talking to parents” is also a deliberate framing device: parents stand in for civilian innocence without romanticizing it, and their perspective makes the violence legible as a direct assault on continuity - on children, on the future, on the basic promise that routines will repeat.
The subtext is an indictment of both perpetrators and distant audiences. Kristof doesn’t describe combat; he describes domination. Shooting men at wells isn’t tactical, it’s theatrical - violence staged to broadcast power and to grind a population into displacement. As a writer steeped in humanitarian crises (Darfur and beyond), Kristof’s intent is to convert reportage into urgency: not to let suffering remain “over there,” but to make it specific enough that moral neutrality feels like complicity.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kristof, Nicholas D. (2026, January 15). One of the things that really got to me was talking to parents who had been burned out of their villages, had family members killed, and then when men showed up at the wells to get water, they were shot. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-things-that-really-got-to-me-was-160613/
Chicago Style
Kristof, Nicholas D. "One of the things that really got to me was talking to parents who had been burned out of their villages, had family members killed, and then when men showed up at the wells to get water, they were shot." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-things-that-really-got-to-me-was-160613/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One of the things that really got to me was talking to parents who had been burned out of their villages, had family members killed, and then when men showed up at the wells to get water, they were shot." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-of-the-things-that-really-got-to-me-was-160613/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.




