"One often contradicts an opinion when what is uncongenial is really the tone in which it was conveyed"
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The line cuts at a common self-deception: people “contradict an opinion” to preserve their self-image as rational agents, but the actual irritant is often the speaker’s posture - condescension, smugness, piety, even excessive certainty. Tone becomes a kind of social threat. It implies hierarchy. It assigns roles. It dares the listener to submit. So the rebuttal arrives not as a clean refutation, but as a counterattack that restores status: I reject your claim because I reject what your manner implies about me.
That’s why the sentence lands with such surgical force. Nietzsche isn’t offering a civility lecture; he’s exposing the emotional economy underneath intellectual life. It’s also a warning about how easily “reason” can be recruited as cover for ressentiment - that signature Nietzschean mix of wounded pride and moralized retaliation. If tone can provoke contradiction, tone can also camouflage power: the sanctimonious tone that makes dissent feel indecent, the authoritarian tone that makes doubt feel childish.
Read in the context of late-19th-century polemics - Nietzsche amid professors, preachers, and nationalist certainties - it’s a reminder that ideas don’t travel alone. They arrive with a voice, and the voice is often the real argument.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | Verified source: Human, All Too Human (Menschliches, Allzumenschliches) (Friedrich Nietzsche, 1878)
Evidence: Man widerspricht oft einer Meinung, während uns nur der Ton, mit dem sie vorgetragen wurde, unsympathisch ist. (Part I, "Der Mensch im Verkehr" (Man in Society), aphorism §303). This is widely circulated in English as: “One often contradicts an opinion when what is uncongenial is really the tone in which it was conveyed/it is conveyed.” The closest verifiable PRIMARY-source attribution I can confirm from Nietzsche’s own published work is Human, All Too Human (1878), Part I, section/heading “Der Mensch im Verkehr”, aphorism number 303, in German. Many online quote sites misattribute the English version to The Will to Power, but The Will to Power is a posthumous compilation edited by others and not a work Nietzsche published as a book in his lifetime. The URL provided is not itself a primary text; it is used here only as a pointer to the precise location (work + section + aphorism) in Nietzsche’s primary work. For strict primary verification (first publication + exact wording), you should consult an 1878 German edition of Menschliches, Allzumenschliches and locate §303. Other candidates (1) Pronunciation and Phonetics (Adam Brown, 2014) compilation95.0% ... One often contradicts an opinion when what is uncongenial is really the tone in which it was conveyed. Friedrich ... |
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