"One reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives"
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The subtext is that the fear isn’t really of choosing the wrong thing; it’s of admitting agency. Deliberate choice forces us to accept authorship over consequences, including the mundane ones: altered routines, disappointed people, a new version of ourselves that can’t be un-lived. Mackay also slyly punctures the comforting myth that the status quo is neutral. Refusing to choose is itself a choice, one that quietly preserves existing patterns and power dynamics while letting us tell ourselves we’re merely “waiting.”
Contextually, this reads like social commentary from a writer attuned to late-20th and early-21st century anxiety: constant news, economic volatility, and the soft tyranny of endless options. The quote works because it treats personal change as a form of trauma management. It doesn’t romanticize bravery; it explains avoidance with empathy, then exposes its cost: a life shaped more by fear of disruption than by desire.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mackay, Hugh. (2026, January 15). One reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-reason-we-resist-making-deliberate-choices-is-142799/
Chicago Style
Mackay, Hugh. "One reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-reason-we-resist-making-deliberate-choices-is-142799/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-reason-we-resist-making-deliberate-choices-is-142799/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.







