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Life & Wisdom Quote by Hugh Mackay

"One reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives"

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Mackay’s line lands like a quiet indictment of our favorite modern pose: being “too busy” or “not sure yet.” He reframes indecision not as a lack of options, but as an emotional strategy. The sentence is built on a neat psychological equation - choice equals change - and then turns the screw by suggesting we already feel buffeted by a chaotic world. If everything outside the front door is unstable, we turn our private lives into a bunker. Not choosing becomes a way to keep the walls standing.

The subtext is that the fear isn’t really of choosing the wrong thing; it’s of admitting agency. Deliberate choice forces us to accept authorship over consequences, including the mundane ones: altered routines, disappointed people, a new version of ourselves that can’t be un-lived. Mackay also slyly punctures the comforting myth that the status quo is neutral. Refusing to choose is itself a choice, one that quietly preserves existing patterns and power dynamics while letting us tell ourselves we’re merely “waiting.”

Contextually, this reads like social commentary from a writer attuned to late-20th and early-21st century anxiety: constant news, economic volatility, and the soft tyranny of endless options. The quote works because it treats personal change as a form of trauma management. It doesn’t romanticize bravery; it explains avoidance with empathy, then exposes its cost: a life shaped more by fear of disruption than by desire.

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Mackay, Hugh. (2026, January 15). One reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-reason-we-resist-making-deliberate-choices-is-142799/

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Mackay, Hugh. "One reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-reason-we-resist-making-deliberate-choices-is-142799/.

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"One reason we resist making deliberate choices is that choice equals change and most of us, feeling the world is unpredictable enough, try to minimise the trauma of change in our personal lives." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-reason-we-resist-making-deliberate-choices-is-142799/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Hugh Mackay (born 1938) is a Writer from Australia.

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