"One thing I am certain of is that, if I have done anything good in music, it was, first, because of my father, and second, because of my wife"
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The order matters. Putting his father first isn’t sentimental; it’s a thesis about how Ives became Ives. George Ives, a bandmaster, taught him to hear the world as layered noise - multiple keys at once, tunes overlapping across distance, the rough democracy of marching bands and church hymns. That pedagogy becomes the moral engine of Ives’s modernism: experimentation rooted in everyday American sound, not European permission. By calling it “anything good,” he undercuts the heroic narrative while quietly insisting that the good is real.
Then the wife. Harmony Twichell Ives wasn’t just a spouse in the biographical footnotes; she was his stabilizer, advocate, and caretaker as his health declined and his confidence faltered. In a culture that still loves the myth of the self-made (male) artist, Ives acknowledges the hidden infrastructure that makes “great work” possible: emotional labor, practical support, the steadying presence that keeps a difficult, often unperformed body of music from curdling into private obsession.
The subtext is almost Protestant: achievement as stewardship, gratitude as discipline. Ives isn’t performing humility for applause; he’s locating authorship in a network - family, marriage, community - the same network his music famously tries to sonify.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ives, Charles. (2026, January 16). One thing I am certain of is that, if I have done anything good in music, it was, first, because of my father, and second, because of my wife. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-i-am-certain-of-is-that-if-i-have-done-109708/
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Ives, Charles. "One thing I am certain of is that, if I have done anything good in music, it was, first, because of my father, and second, because of my wife." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-i-am-certain-of-is-that-if-i-have-done-109708/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One thing I am certain of is that, if I have done anything good in music, it was, first, because of my father, and second, because of my wife." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-i-am-certain-of-is-that-if-i-have-done-109708/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

