"One thing my wife says is bad about me, is that I still care too much"
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The line is doing two jobs at once. Publicly, it defends a legacy often dismissed as soap and spectacle by reframing his engine as sincerity, even tenderness: the guy who makes melodrama isn’t merely selling it; he’s wired for it. Privately, it hints at a marital tension familiar to anyone married to ambition. Caring "too much" can mean control, perfectionism, a producer’s habit of managing feelings like story beats. What a spouse might experience as exhausting - the inability to let things go, to stop work from colonizing the home - he repackages as devotion.
In the context of Hollywood, where detachment is marketed as sophistication, Spelling positions himself as almost an anachronism: an emotional holdout in an industry trained to treat everything, including people, as content. The sentence lands because it’s both defensiveness and confession, a soft-focus self-portrait with a sharp edge of truth.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Spelling, Aaron. (2026, January 17). One thing my wife says is bad about me, is that I still care too much. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-my-wife-says-is-bad-about-me-is-that-i-45925/
Chicago Style
Spelling, Aaron. "One thing my wife says is bad about me, is that I still care too much." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-my-wife-says-is-bad-about-me-is-that-i-45925/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One thing my wife says is bad about me, is that I still care too much." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-my-wife-says-is-bad-about-me-is-that-i-45925/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






