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Marriage Quote by Aaron Spelling

"One thing my wife says is bad about me, is that I still care too much"

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A television producer famous for manufacturing glossy conflict turns the spotlight on himself and tries to make a flaw sound like a virtue. "One thing my wife says is bad about me" sets up a domestic credibility check: not a publicist, not an interviewer, but the person presumed to know him when the cameras are off. Then comes the pivot - "I still care too much" - a classic humblebrag, but softened by that key word "still". It suggests time has passed, the business has toughened everyone else, and his sentimental stubbornness has somehow survived the cynicism.

The line is doing two jobs at once. Publicly, it defends a legacy often dismissed as soap and spectacle by reframing his engine as sincerity, even tenderness: the guy who makes melodrama isn’t merely selling it; he’s wired for it. Privately, it hints at a marital tension familiar to anyone married to ambition. Caring "too much" can mean control, perfectionism, a producer’s habit of managing feelings like story beats. What a spouse might experience as exhausting - the inability to let things go, to stop work from colonizing the home - he repackages as devotion.

In the context of Hollywood, where detachment is marketed as sophistication, Spelling positions himself as almost an anachronism: an emotional holdout in an industry trained to treat everything, including people, as content. The sentence lands because it’s both defensiveness and confession, a soft-focus self-portrait with a sharp edge of truth.

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Spelling, Aaron. (2026, January 17). One thing my wife says is bad about me, is that I still care too much. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-my-wife-says-is-bad-about-me-is-that-i-45925/

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Spelling, Aaron. "One thing my wife says is bad about me, is that I still care too much." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-my-wife-says-is-bad-about-me-is-that-i-45925/.

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"One thing my wife says is bad about me, is that I still care too much." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-my-wife-says-is-bad-about-me-is-that-i-45925/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Aaron Spelling (April 22, 1923 - June 23, 2006) was a Producer from USA.

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