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"One thing that makes art different from life is that in art things have a shape... it allows us to fix our emotions on events at the moment they occur, it permits a union of heart and mind and tongue and tear"

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French is smuggling a radical defense of form into what sounds like a tender tribute to feeling. “Life” is the messy overflow: sensations without edges, meanings that arrive late, grief that keeps changing its clothes. “Art,” by contrast, has “shape” - not because it’s tidier, but because it’s engineered. The word lands like a rebuke to the cult of pure spontaneity. Shape isn’t decoration; it’s a container strong enough to hold what would otherwise leak out as noise, denial, or after-the-fact rationalization.

Her most pointed move is temporal: art lets us “fix our emotions on events at the moment they occur.” In life, we narrate retroactively. We miss the feeling while it’s happening, then patch together an explanation once we’re safe. French wants art to be an apparatus for presence - a way of catching experience before it turns into self-protective story. That’s why the syntax accelerates into a bodily inventory: “heart and mind and tongue and tear.” She’s collapsing the false hierarchy that puts intellect over emotion, speech over crying. Art, for her, is the rare zone where those systems can cooperate instead of policing one another.

Context matters: French wrote out of a late-20th-century feminist insistence that private feeling is political data, not embarrassing static. In that light, “union” reads as defiance. If women are trained to swallow anger, soften language, and apologize for tears, then art’s “shape” becomes permission: a crafted form in which unsanctioned emotion can be stated clearly, even beautifully, without being dismissed as hysteria.

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French, Marilyn. (2026, January 17). One thing that makes art different from life is that in art things have a shape... it allows us to fix our emotions on events at the moment they occur, it permits a union of heart and mind and tongue and tear. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-that-makes-art-different-from-life-is-70291/

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French, Marilyn. "One thing that makes art different from life is that in art things have a shape... it allows us to fix our emotions on events at the moment they occur, it permits a union of heart and mind and tongue and tear." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-that-makes-art-different-from-life-is-70291/.

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"One thing that makes art different from life is that in art things have a shape... it allows us to fix our emotions on events at the moment they occur, it permits a union of heart and mind and tongue and tear." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-thing-that-makes-art-different-from-life-is-70291/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Marilyn French

Marilyn French (November 21, 1929 - May 2, 2009) was a Author from USA.

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