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Creativity Quote by Mary Lou Williams

"One way and another I was having a ball - playing gigs, jamming and listening to fine musicians. Then came a crisis at home. My stepfather fell sick, and it meant I had to support the family"

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The swing in this memory is in the sentence break: “having a ball” crashes into “Then came a crisis at home.” Mary Lou Williams frames joy as something real but interruptible, a short-lived pocket of freedom inside a life that never stops billing you. The line works because it refuses the romantic myth of the jazz life as pure nocturnal adventure. It’s gigs and jams, yes, but it’s also rent, caregiving, and the sudden transfer of adulthood onto a young artist’s shoulders.

Her phrasing is plainspoken, almost casual, which makes the subtext sharper. “One way and another” shrugs at the messy logistics behind the glow of the bandstand. “Support the family” lands with the force of obligation, not complaint. Williams isn’t asking for pity; she’s asserting what professionalism meant for her: music as livelihood, not just vocation. That matters in her context as a Black woman navigating an industry that routinely celebrated genius while exploiting labor. The crisis doesn’t end the music; it repurposes it. Art becomes infrastructure.

There’s a quiet argument here about the cost of talent. The world loves the idea of a prodigy “having a ball,” but Williams reminds you that the same hands that improvise can also hold a household together. The tension between pleasure and duty becomes its own rhythm section, driving the narrative forward: the show goes on, not because the artist is carefree, but because she can’t afford not to be.

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Williams, Mary Lou. (2026, January 16). One way and another I was having a ball - playing gigs, jamming and listening to fine musicians. Then came a crisis at home. My stepfather fell sick, and it meant I had to support the family. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-way-and-another-i-was-having-a-ball-playing-114532/

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Williams, Mary Lou. "One way and another I was having a ball - playing gigs, jamming and listening to fine musicians. Then came a crisis at home. My stepfather fell sick, and it meant I had to support the family." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-way-and-another-i-was-having-a-ball-playing-114532/.

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"One way and another I was having a ball - playing gigs, jamming and listening to fine musicians. Then came a crisis at home. My stepfather fell sick, and it meant I had to support the family." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-way-and-another-i-was-having-a-ball-playing-114532/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Mary Lou Williams (May 8, 1910 - May 28, 1981) was a Musician from USA.

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