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Success Quote by Abraham Maslow

"One's only rival is one's own potentialities. One's only failure is failing to live up to one's own possibilities. In this sense, every man can be a king, and must therefore be treated like a king"

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Maslow turns self-help into a moral demand, and that pivot is the quote’s quiet provocation. The first two lines dismantle the usual scoreboard - status, competition, even other people’s approval - and replace it with an internal rival: the self you could have been. It’s an uplifting move, but also a ruthless one. If your “only failure” is not actualizing your possibilities, then excuses shrink; structural obstacles fade into the background; guilt starts to look like the price of admission to growth. The phrasing is absolutist on purpose. “Only” is a hammer, not a qualifier.

The third line is where the rhetoric gets politically charged. “Every man can be a king” sounds egalitarian, but it’s not the equality of identical outcomes; it’s the equality of dignity grounded in unrealized potential. Maslow ties respect to possibility, not achievement. You don’t treat someone like a king because they’ve won; you treat them like a king because there’s a full human life still latent in them. That’s a subtle rebuke to institutions that sort people early - schools, workplaces, class systems - then act as if the sorting reveals destiny.

Context matters: Maslow’s humanistic psychology emerged as a counterweight to behaviorism’s rat-maze pragmatism and psychoanalysis’ fixation on pathology. Self-actualization was his bid to study the top of the human range, not merely the broken parts. The subtext is a mid-century democratic optimism with an edge: if we owe each other kingly regard, society’s job is to stop crushing the very possibilities it claims to celebrate.

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Maslow, Abraham. (2026, January 15). One's only rival is one's own potentialities. One's only failure is failing to live up to one's own possibilities. In this sense, every man can be a king, and must therefore be treated like a king. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ones-only-rival-is-ones-own-potentialities-ones-29511/

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Maslow, Abraham. "One's only rival is one's own potentialities. One's only failure is failing to live up to one's own possibilities. In this sense, every man can be a king, and must therefore be treated like a king." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ones-only-rival-is-ones-own-potentialities-ones-29511/.

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"One's only rival is one's own potentialities. One's only failure is failing to live up to one's own possibilities. In this sense, every man can be a king, and must therefore be treated like a king." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ones-only-rival-is-ones-own-potentialities-ones-29511/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Abraham Maslow

Abraham Maslow (April 1, 1908 - June 8, 1970) was a Psychologist from USA.

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