"Only a kind person is able to judge another justly and to make allowances for his weaknesses. A kind eye, while recognizing defects, sees beyond them"
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The phrase “make allowances” does heavy lifting. It suggests an accountant’s precision, but aimed at human frailty. Weaknesses are not excuses; they’re variables in the equation of responsibility. That’s the pastoral subtext: people are accountable, but never reducible to their worst data points. A “kind eye” “recognizing defects” rejects denial or naive optimism; it’s not sentimental blindness. The virtue is the second half: it “sees beyond them,” insisting that a person’s identity exceeds their failures.
Context matters: as a clergyman, Lovasik is echoing a Christian ethics of charity and humility, with a sideways warning against moral pride. The hidden target is the righteous spectator, the person who confuses moral clarity with moral superiority. The intent isn’t to abolish judgment but to sanctify it, turning evaluation into an act that demands self-awareness: if you can’t imagine the pressures, histories, and limits shaping someone else, you’re not judging at all - you’re just condemning.
It works because it recasts kindness as disciplined perception, not indulgence.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Lovasik, Lawrence G. (2026, January 16). Only a kind person is able to judge another justly and to make allowances for his weaknesses. A kind eye, while recognizing defects, sees beyond them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/only-a-kind-person-is-able-to-judge-another-88203/
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Lovasik, Lawrence G. "Only a kind person is able to judge another justly and to make allowances for his weaknesses. A kind eye, while recognizing defects, sees beyond them." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/only-a-kind-person-is-able-to-judge-another-88203/.
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"Only a kind person is able to judge another justly and to make allowances for his weaknesses. A kind eye, while recognizing defects, sees beyond them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/only-a-kind-person-is-able-to-judge-another-88203/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








