"Only in spontaneity can we be who we truly are"
About this Quote
The subtext is a quiet rebuke to the modern obsession with curation. In a world where identity is constantly edited, filtered, and optimized for an audience, “who we truly are” gets mistaken for a consistent, marketable narrative. McLaughlin flips that: authenticity shows up when the narrative breaks. The moment you don’t have time to pose, you reveal what your attention reaches for, what your instincts sound like, what you’re afraid of, what you’re willing to risk.
There’s also a subtle spiritual edge, consistent with the way many jazz and fusion musicians talk about flow: spontaneity as a kind of surrender. You don’t “achieve” the self; you get out of its way. The line works because it treats identity not as a fixed inner object but as an event - something that happens in real time, under pressure, in relationship to others. Improvisation, onstage and off, becomes a truth serum.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McLaughlin, John. (2026, January 15). Only in spontaneity can we be who we truly are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/only-in-spontaneity-can-we-be-who-we-truly-are-142144/
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McLaughlin, John. "Only in spontaneity can we be who we truly are." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/only-in-spontaneity-can-we-be-who-we-truly-are-142144/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Only in spontaneity can we be who we truly are." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/only-in-spontaneity-can-we-be-who-we-truly-are-142144/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.







