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Daily Inspiration Quote by E. M. Forster

"Only people who have been allowed to practise freedom can have the grown-up look in their eyes"

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Freedom, for Forster, is not a slogan but a muscle tone. The “grown-up look” isn’t a matter of age or polish; it’s the visible residue of having made real choices and lived with the consequences. His verb is doing the heavy lifting: people must be “allowed to practise” freedom, as if liberty were a craft learned through repetition, error, and social permission. That single phrase quietly indicts the systems - families, schools, governments, empires - that claim to “educate” while keeping agency behind glass.

The subtext is classic Forster: liberal humanism with teeth. He’s suspicious of moral certainties that arrive prepackaged. To look “grown-up” is to have passed through the messy apprenticeship of self-determination, to have negotiated desire, duty, and fear without someone else narrating your life for you. When freedom is withheld, people don’t just lose options; they lose a certain clarity in their gaze - the confidence that comes from being treated as a full moral adult.

Context matters. Forster wrote in the shadow of an aggressively class-bound Britain and a collapsing imperial order, and he watched how respectability could masquerade as maturity. His novels repeatedly stage the cost of repression - sexual, emotional, political - and the way “civilization” can infantilize. The line also reads as an anti-authoritarian warning: deny people practice, then blame them for not performing adulthood. It’s a neat reversal that exposes paternalism as a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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E. M. Forster

E. M. Forster (January 1, 1879 - June 7, 1970) was a Novelist from England.

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