"Only the lonely know the way I feel tonight"
About this Quote
The phrase “know the way I feel” sounds almost plain, even childlike, and that’s the trick. It refuses poetic decoration because the speaker can’t afford distance from the feeling. “Tonight” pins it to a single, late-hour crisis: not a life story, not a melodrama, but the acute, familiar time when silence gets loud and memory starts performing. It’s present tense, but it carries the residue of repetition, implying this isn’t the first night like this and won’t be the last.
Context matters: Orbison’s persona was operatic and controlled, a voice that could soar without sounding messy. That restraint makes the line hit harder. The emotion is enormous, but the wording stays clipped, like someone trying to keep it together in public while falling apart in private. The subtext is a quiet indictment of the well-meaning outsider: don’t offer advice, don’t offer optimism. Just recognize that loneliness isn’t solved by company; it’s defined by being fundamentally misunderstood.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
|---|---|
| Source | Only the Lonely (Know the Way I Feel), song by Roy Orbison and Joe Melson, Monument Records single, 1960 (title/chorus line). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Orbison, Roy. (2026, January 16). Only the lonely know the way I feel tonight. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/only-the-lonely-know-the-way-i-feel-tonight-85544/
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Orbison, Roy. "Only the lonely know the way I feel tonight." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/only-the-lonely-know-the-way-i-feel-tonight-85544/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Only the lonely know the way I feel tonight." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/only-the-lonely-know-the-way-i-feel-tonight-85544/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







