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Daily Inspiration Quote by Mae West

"Opportunity knocks for every man, but you have to give a woman a ring"

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Mae West turns a folksy American proverb into a one-line booby trap. “Opportunity knocks for every man” arrives dressed as civic uplift: the bootstrap promise that the doorbell rings for anyone willing to hustle. Then she slams the second clause into it like a hip-check: “but you have to give a woman a ring.” The joke isn’t just the pun on “ring” as phone call and marriage proposal; it’s the way she reassigns agency. Men get destiny delivered to their doorstep. Women, in West’s world, get access through negotiation - through being asked, chosen, publicly claimed. Opportunity is gendered, and the cost of entry is social performance.

West’s intent is mischievous but pointed: expose the rigged machinery of romance and respectability while keeping the audience laughing. The line winks at the era’s double bind for women in showbiz and beyond. A man can be a “self-made” hero; a woman is expected to be “made” legitimate by attachment. That’s the subtext: even when women are talented, funny, and economically active, the culture keeps trying to convert them into wives as the final credential.

Context matters. West built her persona in the early 20th century by weaponizing innuendo against censorship and moral panic, especially as the Hays Code tried to discipline female sexuality on screen. This quip is her trademark reversal: she plays the “gold digger” stereotype loudly enough that it becomes critique. It lands because it’s breezy on the surface and bleak underneath - a comedy of doors that only open if someone else hands you the key.

Quote Details

TopicWitty One-Liners
SourceMae West — ascribed quote: "Opportunity knocks for every man, but you have to give a woman a ring." (attribution listed on Wikiquote; original publication/date not supplied)
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APA Style (7th ed.)
West, Mae. (2026, January 15). Opportunity knocks for every man, but you have to give a woman a ring. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/opportunity-knocks-for-every-man-but-you-have-to-33319/

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West, Mae. "Opportunity knocks for every man, but you have to give a woman a ring." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/opportunity-knocks-for-every-man-but-you-have-to-33319/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Opportunity knocks for every man, but you have to give a woman a ring." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/opportunity-knocks-for-every-man-but-you-have-to-33319/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mae West

Mae West (August 17, 1893 - November 22, 1980) was a Actress from USA.

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