"Or if I have my head in the results, I can't work with what I have, because I'm trying to force something to happen. And with singing, any time you force it, you tighten up. If you tighten up, you're screwed, nothing will work"
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The brilliance is how she translates that mental trap into body horror. For singers, anxiety isn’t abstract; it becomes jaw tension, shallow breath, a tight throat. Her blunt escalation - “If you tighten up, you’re screwed” - punctures any romantic myth that talent magically overrides pressure. It’s not poetic; it’s true, and that’s why it lands. She’s insisting that control is the enemy of control: the harder you try to command the moment, the less available you are to the only thing you can actually do, which is work with what you have.
Contextually, this reads like the hard-earned wisdom of a career musician who’s lived through studio perfectionism and the public demand to reproduce “the record” onstage. It’s also a cultural nudge: in an era that treats every creative act as content with an expected payoff, Mattea argues for presence as survival. The goal isn’t to stop caring about results; it’s to stop letting them hijack your breath.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mattea, Kathy. (n.d.). Or if I have my head in the results, I can't work with what I have, because I'm trying to force something to happen. And with singing, any time you force it, you tighten up. If you tighten up, you're screwed, nothing will work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/or-if-i-have-my-head-in-the-results-i-cant-work-72108/
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Mattea, Kathy. "Or if I have my head in the results, I can't work with what I have, because I'm trying to force something to happen. And with singing, any time you force it, you tighten up. If you tighten up, you're screwed, nothing will work." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/or-if-i-have-my-head-in-the-results-i-cant-work-72108/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Or if I have my head in the results, I can't work with what I have, because I'm trying to force something to happen. And with singing, any time you force it, you tighten up. If you tighten up, you're screwed, nothing will work." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/or-if-i-have-my-head-in-the-results-i-cant-work-72108/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.
