"Other women looked on me as a rival. And it pained me a great deal"
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The intent feels defensive but also strangely generous. Kelly isn’t blaming women for competition; she’s naming the trap that makes it seem inevitable. In mid-century Hollywood, actresses were packaged as ideals, then pitted against one another as if scarcity were romantic. Rivalry was good copy. It kept studio publicity humming and made male attention the invisible scoreboard. Kelly, whose image was cultivated as “ice-blonde” perfection, would have been cast as the threat before she ever spoke.
“And it pained me a great deal” does the real work. Pain implies she wanted something else: female camaraderie, neutrality, the right to be seen as a colleague rather than a contest. It also hints at the loneliness of being read as an obstacle instead of a person. Coming from a figure who became literal royalty, the line doubles as a preview of the gilded cage: admiration that isolates, glamour that extracts a toll. Kelly’s tragedy wasn’t that she was envied; it’s that envy became the default language people used to talk to her.
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"Other women looked on me as a rival. And it pained me a great deal." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/other-women-looked-on-me-as-a-rival-and-it-pained-158346/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





