"Our American friends offer us money, arms, and advice. We take the money, we take the arms, and we decline the advice"
About this Quote
The subtext is aimed in two directions. To Washington, it’s a polite warning: support is welcome, supervision is not. “Decline” is doing a lot of work here; it avoids insult while drawing a bright line against patronage. To Israelis, it’s reassurance that dependence won’t become deference, that the state can take aid without surrendering agency. Dayan’s credibility as a soldier matters: he’s not theorizing sovereignty from an office; he’s staking it in the language of survival.
Context matters because U.S.-Israel ties were deepening into a relationship that could easily become asymmetrical, especially after major wars when resupply and diplomatic cover were existential. Dayan’s quip acknowledges a hard truth: aid is never free of expectations. By turning that truth into a memorable joke, he does something rhetorically shrewd - he makes autonomy sound not just necessary but effortless, even as the real politics of saying “no” to a superpower are anything but.
Quote Details
| Topic | War |
|---|---|
| Source | Moshe Dayan , quote listed on Wikiquote: "Our American friends offer us money, arms, and advice. We take the money, we take the arms, and we decline the advice." |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Dayan, Moshe. (2026, January 14). Our American friends offer us money, arms, and advice. We take the money, we take the arms, and we decline the advice. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-american-friends-offer-us-money-arms-and-84412/
Chicago Style
Dayan, Moshe. "Our American friends offer us money, arms, and advice. We take the money, we take the arms, and we decline the advice." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-american-friends-offer-us-money-arms-and-84412/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Our American friends offer us money, arms, and advice. We take the money, we take the arms, and we decline the advice." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-american-friends-offer-us-money-arms-and-84412/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




