"Our attitudes have changed a lot, really, and so there's a certain toughness about it"
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The line lands like an actor’s aside: casual on the surface, quietly barbed underneath. Northam isn’t marveling at “progress” so much as naming the emotional callus that comes with it. “Our attitudes have changed a lot” gestures toward a cultural shift that’s so broad it can’t be pinned to one cause: politics, media cycles, therapy-speak, public shaming, the post-ironic habit of treating everything as content. Then he swerves to the consequence: “a certain toughness.” Not resilience in the inspirational-poster sense, but a hardness that reads as adaptation and loss at once.
The phrasing does the work. “Really” sounds like a conversational shrug, but it also functions as a check on nostalgia: yes, the change is real, and no, we don’t get to pretend we’re unchanged by it. “Certain” is strategic vagueness, the kind public figures use when they’re talking about something culturally sensitive without lighting a match. It implies toughness isn’t wholly admirable; it’s just what’s happened.
Coming from an actor, the subtext leans meta. Acting is an empathy job, and empathy is harder to perform - and harder to receive - in a climate trained to watch for inauthenticity. The “toughness” may be the armor people wear now: less patience for sentiment, quicker to judge, quicker to defend. Northam’s intent feels diagnostic, not scolding. He’s pointing to a cultural temperament: we’ve become more fluent in critique, and less comfortable with softness.
The phrasing does the work. “Really” sounds like a conversational shrug, but it also functions as a check on nostalgia: yes, the change is real, and no, we don’t get to pretend we’re unchanged by it. “Certain” is strategic vagueness, the kind public figures use when they’re talking about something culturally sensitive without lighting a match. It implies toughness isn’t wholly admirable; it’s just what’s happened.
Coming from an actor, the subtext leans meta. Acting is an empathy job, and empathy is harder to perform - and harder to receive - in a climate trained to watch for inauthenticity. The “toughness” may be the armor people wear now: less patience for sentiment, quicker to judge, quicker to defend. Northam’s intent feels diagnostic, not scolding. He’s pointing to a cultural temperament: we’ve become more fluent in critique, and less comfortable with softness.
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