"Our being is subject to all the chances of life. There are so many things we are capable of, that we could be or do. The potentialities are so great that we never, any of us, are more than one-fourth fulfilled"
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Then she widens the aperture. “So many things we are capable of” sounds, at first, like encouragement, but the phrase quickly curdles into pressure. Porter’s list of “could be or do” isn’t a catalogue of options; it’s a reminder that every chosen life is also a cemetery of unlived ones. The subtext is grief, not fantasy - the quiet mourning that comes from realizing your “potential” is infinite mostly because your time, health, money, luck, and historical moment are not.
The kicker, “one-fourth fulfilled,” is a deliberately deflationary number: precise enough to sting, arbitrary enough to feel true. It punctures the comforting idea that fulfillment is a finish line you reach if you want it badly enough. Coming from a writer shaped by war, pandemics, and the violent churn of the early 20th century, the quote reads as both warning and mercy. If we’re only partially realized, it’s not always a personal failure. It’s the human condition under imperfect conditions.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Porter, Katherine Anne. (2026, January 16). Our being is subject to all the chances of life. There are so many things we are capable of, that we could be or do. The potentialities are so great that we never, any of us, are more than one-fourth fulfilled. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-being-is-subject-to-all-the-chances-of-life-120296/
Chicago Style
Porter, Katherine Anne. "Our being is subject to all the chances of life. There are so many things we are capable of, that we could be or do. The potentialities are so great that we never, any of us, are more than one-fourth fulfilled." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-being-is-subject-to-all-the-chances-of-life-120296/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Our being is subject to all the chances of life. There are so many things we are capable of, that we could be or do. The potentialities are so great that we never, any of us, are more than one-fourth fulfilled." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-being-is-subject-to-all-the-chances-of-life-120296/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








