"Our house is made of glass... and our lives are made of glass; and there is nothing we can do to protect ourselves"
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The doubled image - “our house” and “our lives” - collapses the distinction between domestic space and interior self. Oates is saying the breach isn’t just about burglary or violence; it’s about how easily the self can be entered, scrutinized, judged, shattered. Glass carries its own irony: it’s hard enough to feel solid, yet one wrong impact and it becomes evidence. That’s Oates’s speciality as a novelist of American dread: the ordinary surfaces (family, suburb, romance, reputation) look coherent until they reveal how thin they always were.
Contextually, it reads as both psychological and cultural. Late-20th/21st-century life trains us to perform our interiors - through confession, surveillance, and curated disclosure - while selling “protection” as a consumer fantasy. Oates punctures that market. The grim kicker, “there is nothing we can do,” isn’t fatalism for its own sake; it’s an attack on the comforting myth that vulnerability is a personal failure rather than a structural fact of being alive among others.
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| Topic | Mortality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Oates, Joyce Carol. (2026, January 15). Our house is made of glass... and our lives are made of glass; and there is nothing we can do to protect ourselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-house-is-made-of-glass-and-our-lives-are-made-160399/
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Oates, Joyce Carol. "Our house is made of glass... and our lives are made of glass; and there is nothing we can do to protect ourselves." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-house-is-made-of-glass-and-our-lives-are-made-160399/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Our house is made of glass... and our lives are made of glass; and there is nothing we can do to protect ourselves." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-house-is-made-of-glass-and-our-lives-are-made-160399/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







