"Our life is what our thoughts make it. A man will find that as he alters his thoughts toward things and other people, things and other people will alter towards him"
About this Quote
The second sentence makes the move that gives the quote its persuasive power: it turns cognition into social gravity. “As he alters his thoughts… things and other people will alter towards him” implies a feedback loop. Part of it is behavioral (think warmer thoughts, act warmer, get warmer responses). Part of it is perceptual (notice kindness, you’ll start collecting evidence of it). Allen leaves that ambiguity intact because it flatters both camps: the practical reader gets a usable technique; the spiritually inclined reader gets something like a law of attraction without the gaudier metaphysics.
Context matters. Writing in the late Victorian and Edwardian period, Allen belonged to the New Thought milieu, when industrial modernity, social churn, and religious doubt made “mind over circumstance” feel like a portable faith. The subtext is almost stoic: you may not control events, but you can control the frame. The risk, of course, is that it can slide into blaming people for their suffering. Allen’s intent is cleaner than that: he’s selling a discipline of mind as character-building, a way to make the self less reactive and the world more livable.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Improvement |
|---|---|
| Source | As a Man Thinketh (1903), James Allen — opening paragraph of the essay (public-domain text). |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Allen, James. (2026, January 17). Our life is what our thoughts make it. A man will find that as he alters his thoughts toward things and other people, things and other people will alter towards him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-life-is-what-our-thoughts-make-it-a-man-will-28358/
Chicago Style
Allen, James. "Our life is what our thoughts make it. A man will find that as he alters his thoughts toward things and other people, things and other people will alter towards him." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-life-is-what-our-thoughts-make-it-a-man-will-28358/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Our life is what our thoughts make it. A man will find that as he alters his thoughts toward things and other people, things and other people will alter towards him." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-life-is-what-our-thoughts-make-it-a-man-will-28358/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.









