"Our lives are not in the lap of the gods, but in the lap of our cooks"
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The intent is slyly materialist. “Lap” does double duty: it evokes passivity (we’re cradled, dependent) and intimacy (someone close enough to care for your body). Lin aims that at a culture too eager to spiritualize suffering or outsource responsibility to heaven. In his hands, the sacred migrates to the kitchen. Health, mood, hospitality, even family politics flow from what gets cooked, when, and by whom. A good meal can stabilize a household; a bad one can sour it. That’s not sentimentality; it’s logistics.
The subtext also has a social edge. Cooks are often women, servants, or undervalued laborers. Elevating them over “the gods” is a wink at status: the people we treat as background are literally keeping us alive. Lin, writing across Chinese and Western worlds, liked this kind of cross-cultural deflation: a cosmopolitan humanism that trusts small pleasures and everyday competence more than metaphysical drama. It’s humor with a spine - reverence redirected toward the ordinary hands that make life possible.
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| Topic | Cooking |
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Yutang, Lin. (2026, January 15). Our lives are not in the lap of the gods, but in the lap of our cooks. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-lives-are-not-in-the-lap-of-the-gods-but-in-118590/
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"Our lives are not in the lap of the gods, but in the lap of our cooks." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-lives-are-not-in-the-lap-of-the-gods-but-in-118590/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







