"Our lives are not in the lap of the gods, but in the lap of our cooks"
About this Quote
The intent is slyly materialist. “Lap” does double duty: it evokes passivity (we’re cradled, dependent) and intimacy (someone close enough to care for your body). Lin aims that at a culture too eager to spiritualize suffering or outsource responsibility to heaven. In his hands, the sacred migrates to the kitchen. Health, mood, hospitality, even family politics flow from what gets cooked, when, and by whom. A good meal can stabilize a household; a bad one can sour it. That’s not sentimentality; it’s logistics.
The subtext also has a social edge. Cooks are often women, servants, or undervalued laborers. Elevating them over “the gods” is a wink at status: the people we treat as background are literally keeping us alive. Lin, writing across Chinese and Western worlds, liked this kind of cross-cultural deflation: a cosmopolitan humanism that trusts small pleasures and everyday competence more than metaphysical drama. It’s humor with a spine - reverence redirected toward the ordinary hands that make life possible.
Quote Details
| Topic | Cooking |
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| Source | Verified source: The Importance of Living (Lin Yutang, 1937)
Evidence: Our lives are not in the lap of the gods, but in the lap of our cook, because so much of the enjoyment of life lies within his power to give or to take away as he sees fit. (Chapter: On Food and Medicine; page 245 in the 1998 HarperCollins reprint). The quote is widely attributed to Lin Yutang's The Importance of Living. Google Books confirms the section title 'On Food and Medicine' and places it on page 245 in the 1998 HarperCollins reprint. Multiple secondary sources specifically cite The Importance of Living (1937), and one Chinese-language source preserves the longer wording above, which appears to be the fuller original sentence. The commonly circulated version uses 'cooks' plural and omits the explanatory clause; that appears to be a shortened paraphrastic form rather than the full original wording. Other candidates (1) The Perricone Promise (Nicholas Perricone, 2007) compilation95.0% ... Our lives are not in the lap of the gods , but in the lap of our cooks . LIN YUTANG , THE IMPORTANCE OF LIVING NO... |
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