"Our lives are to be used and thus to be lived as fully as possible, and truly it seems that we are never so alive as when we concern ourselves with other people"
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Then comes the turn that makes the quote feel less like moralizing and more like a songwriter’s truth. “Never so alive” isn’t about intensity for its own sake; it’s about aliveness as relationship. Chapin frames attention to “other people” not as charity but as oxygen. The subtext is that isolation isn’t neutral. Even when it’s comfortable, it quietly deadens.
Context sharpens the intent. Chapin wasn’t just a musician with earnest lyrics; he was famously committed to activism, especially around hunger and poverty, pouring time and money into causes in ways that went beyond celebrity branding. Read against that life, the sentence becomes a defense of outward-facing living, a rebuttal to the suspicion that caring is naive. He’s arguing that service is not self-erasure; it’s self-activation.
The quote works because it refuses the usual trade-off. It doesn’t say: help others because it’s virtuous. It says: help others because that’s where your own life becomes vivid.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chapin, Harry. (2026, January 16). Our lives are to be used and thus to be lived as fully as possible, and truly it seems that we are never so alive as when we concern ourselves with other people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-lives-are-to-be-used-and-thus-to-be-lived-as-133303/
Chicago Style
Chapin, Harry. "Our lives are to be used and thus to be lived as fully as possible, and truly it seems that we are never so alive as when we concern ourselves with other people." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-lives-are-to-be-used-and-thus-to-be-lived-as-133303/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Our lives are to be used and thus to be lived as fully as possible, and truly it seems that we are never so alive as when we concern ourselves with other people." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-lives-are-to-be-used-and-thus-to-be-lived-as-133303/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.





