"Our relationships, relationships between adults, how all those pieces fit together - that's the most complicated thing we all face"
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The phrase “how all those pieces fit together” reads like editing-room language. Condon is a director; he thinks in structure. Adult relationships are treated as a puzzle of incompatible cuts: desire, history, ambition, money, family obligations, aging bodies, private shame, public performance. The subtext is almost anti-romantic: love isn’t the problem to solve, logistics and self-knowledge are. He’s pointing at the invisible labor that movies often skip past with a montage, except his films tend to linger there, in the uncomfortable in-betweens where people renegotiate who they are.
Contextually, it tracks with a filmmaker drawn to characters managing identity under pressure - closeted lives, reinvention, marriages that are part refuge, part trap. The line’s modesty is its persuasion. No grand declaration, just a weary, observant claim that hits because it matches lived experience: adult connection isn’t a finish line, it’s ongoing maintenance, performed in real time, with no script supervisor to call “cut” when the scene turns.
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Condon, Bill. (2026, January 16). Our relationships, relationships between adults, how all those pieces fit together - that's the most complicated thing we all face. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-relationships-relationships-between-adults-138085/
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Condon, Bill. "Our relationships, relationships between adults, how all those pieces fit together - that's the most complicated thing we all face." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-relationships-relationships-between-adults-138085/.
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"Our relationships, relationships between adults, how all those pieces fit together - that's the most complicated thing we all face." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-relationships-relationships-between-adults-138085/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







