"Our self image, strongly held, essentially determines what we become"
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The sentence works because it makes causality feel both personal and inevitable. “Strongly held” does the heavy lifting, implying that beliefs aren’t passive opinions but durable systems that filter what you notice, what risks you take, what you consider “for people like me.” If your self-image says “I’m not a leader,” you interpret opportunities as accidents, dismiss praise as error, and treat anxiety as proof you should stop. The self-image becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy machine.
There’s also a disciplined optimism in “essentially.” Maltz avoids claiming total determinism; he’s leaving room for circumstance while insisting that the inner model is the dominant variable. The subtext is a challenge to fatalism: you may not choose your starting conditions, but you can revise the story you rehearse. The cultural appeal is obvious: it offers agency without requiring miracle cures, and it explains why change efforts fail when they target behavior but leave identity untouched.
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"Our self image, strongly held, essentially determines what we become." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-self-image-strongly-held-essentially-5390/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






