"Our souls may lose their peace and even disturb other people's, if we are always criticizing trivial actions - which often are not real defects at all, but we construe them wrongly through our ignorance of their motives"
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The subtext is monastic and psychological at once: a community can’t survive if everyone plays amateur prosecutor over minor gestures, tone, or routine mistakes. In a convent, those micro-judgments become ambient noise, eroding interior stillness and turning shared life into a courtroom. Teresa frames the damage as contagious: you lose your peace, then you "disturb other people's". Criticism becomes not just a personal vice but a communal force, a way of exporting your inner disorder.
Her sharpest move is the attack on certainty. "Often are not real defects at all" punctures the critic’s favorite illusion: that judgment equals clarity. The problem isn’t merely harshness; it’s epistemology. We misread because we don’t know motives, and ignorance doesn’t stop us from narrating. Teresa suggests that much moral outrage is just storytelling underwritten by pride.
Context matters: Teresa reformed religious life by insisting on discipline without hysteria, rigor without surveillance. This sentence is a blueprint for that balance: if you want holiness, stop confusing omniscience with virtue.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Teresa, Saint. (2026, January 18). Our souls may lose their peace and even disturb other people's, if we are always criticizing trivial actions - which often are not real defects at all, but we construe them wrongly through our ignorance of their motives. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-souls-may-lose-their-peace-and-even-disturb-6719/
Chicago Style
Teresa, Saint. "Our souls may lose their peace and even disturb other people's, if we are always criticizing trivial actions - which often are not real defects at all, but we construe them wrongly through our ignorance of their motives." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-souls-may-lose-their-peace-and-even-disturb-6719/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Our souls may lose their peace and even disturb other people's, if we are always criticizing trivial actions - which often are not real defects at all, but we construe them wrongly through our ignorance of their motives." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-souls-may-lose-their-peace-and-even-disturb-6719/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







