"Our thoughts create our reality - where we put our focus is the direction we tend to go"
About this Quote
The intent is pragmatic and slightly defiant. McWilliams spent years writing about living on the margins (including chronic illness and medical marijuana advocacy), and the quote reads like a tool for staying upright when institutions, bodies, or public narratives are trying to write your script. If you can’t control the world, you can still curate the lens. That’s not naïve; it’s survival strategy.
The subtext carries a warning: focus isn’t neutral. It’s a pipeline. Feed it fear and you’ll start building a world that confirms your fear - through avoidance, catastrophizing, self-sabotage, picking fights with shadows. Feed it possibility and you’re more likely to take the awkward, unglamorous steps that make possibility real. The phrase “tend to go” matters because it dodges absolutism; he’s describing momentum, not magic.
In a culture addicted to distraction and doomscrolling, the line lands as both pep talk and critique: your attention is being fought over, and losing that fight quietly determines where you end up.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McWilliams, Peter. (2026, January 16). Our thoughts create our reality - where we put our focus is the direction we tend to go. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-thoughts-create-our-reality-where-we-put-128685/
Chicago Style
McWilliams, Peter. "Our thoughts create our reality - where we put our focus is the direction we tend to go." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-thoughts-create-our-reality-where-we-put-128685/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Our thoughts create our reality - where we put our focus is the direction we tend to go." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-thoughts-create-our-reality-where-we-put-128685/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








