"Pain is the question mark turned like a fishhook in the human heart"
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Pain, for De Vries, isn’t noble suffering or character-building adversity. It’s punctuation that won’t sit still. The image of a question mark lodged in the heart turns anguish into an ongoing interrogation: not What happened? but Why this? Why me? Why anything? That curl of the question mark matters. It’s not a clean, rational query; it’s a bent, barbed shape, a thought that circles back and catches.
Then De Vries twists the metaphor with the fishhook, replacing abstract uncertainty with physical cruelty. A hook implies something that went in easily and won’t come out without tearing. Pain, in this formulation, isn’t just felt; it’s self-perpetuating, because every attempt to “resolve” it only deepens the wound. It also hints at being snagged by life itself, yanked by forces outside your control: fate, accident, God, other people.
That’s De Vries at his sharpest: the comedian of American mid-century grief, writing in a culture steeped in Protestant moral accounting and postwar promises of progress. His work often treats belief and loss as siblings, each haunting the other. The subtext is theological without being pious. If pain is a question, the universe owes an answer; if it’s a hook, the universe is indifferent to giving one. The line works because it refuses consolation. It’s not about meaning found through suffering. It’s about the way suffering turns meaning into an obsession - and makes that obsession hurt.
Then De Vries twists the metaphor with the fishhook, replacing abstract uncertainty with physical cruelty. A hook implies something that went in easily and won’t come out without tearing. Pain, in this formulation, isn’t just felt; it’s self-perpetuating, because every attempt to “resolve” it only deepens the wound. It also hints at being snagged by life itself, yanked by forces outside your control: fate, accident, God, other people.
That’s De Vries at his sharpest: the comedian of American mid-century grief, writing in a culture steeped in Protestant moral accounting and postwar promises of progress. His work often treats belief and loss as siblings, each haunting the other. The subtext is theological without being pious. If pain is a question, the universe owes an answer; if it’s a hook, the universe is indifferent to giving one. The line works because it refuses consolation. It’s not about meaning found through suffering. It’s about the way suffering turns meaning into an obsession - and makes that obsession hurt.
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