"Papa always makes it clear that he would like to know me as much more rational and lucid than the girls and women he gets to know during his analytic hours"
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The line exposes a double bind. To be valued by Sigmund Freud, she feels pushed to perform as the exception: not like the “girls and women” who pass through his practice. Those women are framed as patients first and people second, implicitly defined by neurosis, dependence, or emotional excess - the stereotypes psychoanalysis often both treated and reinforced. Anna is being offered a promotion out of that category, but it’s a poisoned compliment. Her worth is measured against women at their most vulnerable, seen through the most asymmetrical relationship imaginable.
There’s also strategic self-fashioning. Anna Freud, building her own authority in a male-dominated field, signals that she can speak the father’s prized language of reason. Yet the sentence betrays how much that authority costs: she must distance herself from other women to be granted seriousness, while still orbiting a father whose gaze sets the terms. It’s familial love, professional ambition, and internalized sexism braided into one careful, aching line.
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Freud, Anna. (2026, January 18). Papa always makes it clear that he would like to know me as much more rational and lucid than the girls and women he gets to know during his analytic hours. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/papa-always-makes-it-clear-that-he-would-like-to-21196/
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Freud, Anna. "Papa always makes it clear that he would like to know me as much more rational and lucid than the girls and women he gets to know during his analytic hours." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/papa-always-makes-it-clear-that-he-would-like-to-21196/.
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"Papa always makes it clear that he would like to know me as much more rational and lucid than the girls and women he gets to know during his analytic hours." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/papa-always-makes-it-clear-that-he-would-like-to-21196/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.









