"Parents of young children should realize that few people, and maybe no one, will find their children as enchanting as they do"
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Barbara Walters is doing what great interviewers do best: puncturing a comforting story with a needle so small it feels like common sense. The line lands because it’s blunt, a little funny, and just socially risky enough to be useful. She’s not scolding parents for loving their kids; she’s warning them that parental awe is a private language, not a public argument.
The intent is behavioral, almost etiquette-level: temper your expectations of the room. Walters names a mismatch that drives a lot of low-grade modern friction: parents move through public life assuming their child’s cuteness is self-evident, while everyone else is calculating noise, mess, time, and the unspoken demand for applause. By saying “few people, and maybe no one,” she yanks the fantasy of communal enchantment off its pedestal. That “maybe no one” is the sting, and it’s what makes the advice memorable. It’s the sentence equivalent of a raised eyebrow on live TV.
The subtext is about attention as a scarce resource. Walters came up in a media economy built on rationing: you had a limited spotlight, and you had to earn it. Her worldview doesn’t flatter personal brands, even when the “brand” is your family. In a culture that increasingly treats children as extensions of adult identity, she’s quietly advocating for boundaries: adore them fiercely at home, but don’t conscript strangers into your devotion.
The intent is behavioral, almost etiquette-level: temper your expectations of the room. Walters names a mismatch that drives a lot of low-grade modern friction: parents move through public life assuming their child’s cuteness is self-evident, while everyone else is calculating noise, mess, time, and the unspoken demand for applause. By saying “few people, and maybe no one,” she yanks the fantasy of communal enchantment off its pedestal. That “maybe no one” is the sting, and it’s what makes the advice memorable. It’s the sentence equivalent of a raised eyebrow on live TV.
The subtext is about attention as a scarce resource. Walters came up in a media economy built on rationing: you had a limited spotlight, and you had to earn it. Her worldview doesn’t flatter personal brands, even when the “brand” is your family. In a culture that increasingly treats children as extensions of adult identity, she’s quietly advocating for boundaries: adore them fiercely at home, but don’t conscript strangers into your devotion.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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