"Parents often talk about the younger generation as if they didn't have anything to do with it"
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The joke works because it exposes a grammatical dodge: “the younger generation” is framed like an abstract demographic trend, not a relationship. Ginott punctures that abstraction with the blunt reminder of causality. The subtext is not merely blame; it’s systems thinking in a domestic key. Children absorb what’s modeled, rewarded, ignored, and punished. Values are taught less through speeches than through daily micro-choices: how adults handle anger, money, attention, prejudice, tenderness.
There’s also a quiet rebuke to moral panic. Complaining about youth has always been a way to mourn lost authority without admitting it. By pointing out that parents “had something to do with it,” Ginott shifts the conversation from condemnation to accountability - and, crucially, to agency. If adults helped make the culture kids are growing up in, they can also change it. That’s the intent: not to shame parents into silence, but to stop them from outsourcing the hard work of raising humans to nostalgia and scapegoats.
Quote Details
| Topic | Parenting |
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| Source | Later attribution: Real Talk: Ten Parenting Strategies to Raise Confident Su... (Kumari V. Ghafoor-Davis, 2011) modern compilationISBN: 9781465390677 · ID: zq1OAAAAQBAJ
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... Haim Ginott said “parents often talk about the younger generation as if they didn't have anything to do with it”. So if parents begin to have more accountability for the end product of their children, we can push future generations ... |
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Ginott, Haim. (2026, February 10). Parents often talk about the younger generation as if they didn't have anything to do with it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/parents-often-talk-about-the-younger-generation-68038/
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Ginott, Haim. "Parents often talk about the younger generation as if they didn't have anything to do with it." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/parents-often-talk-about-the-younger-generation-68038/.
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"Parents often talk about the younger generation as if they didn't have anything to do with it." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/parents-often-talk-about-the-younger-generation-68038/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







