"Parents wonder why the streams are bitter, when they themselves have poisoned the fountain"
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A moral indictment disguised as a domestic metaphor, Locke’s line weaponizes cause-and-effect: if the source is polluted, don’t act surprised when what flows out tastes foul. The “fountain” isn’t just the household; it’s the formative environment where character is made. The “streams” are the children who carry that environment downstream into society. Locke’s intent is less to scold kids than to strip parents of their favorite alibi: the belief that youth go bad on their own.
It works because it flips the usual hierarchy. Parents cast themselves as judges of behavior, but Locke recasts them as upstream engineers. The bitterness isn’t a mysterious moral decline; it’s an output. The line’s subtext is political as much as parental: if you want a rational, self-governing public, you don’t start with sermons or punishments, you start with education and example. Locke, the philosopher of liberal governance and the mind shaped by experience, is arguing that virtue is cultivated, not inherited, and that negligence is not neutral. It’s poison.
The context matters. In an era anxious about social order, Locke’s educational thinking (most famously in Some Thoughts Concerning Education) insisted that habits, discipline, and modeling matter more than authoritarian force. The sharpness comes from the image: “poisoned” implies not accidental mess but culpability. Parents “wonder” because denial is easier than responsibility, and Locke’s metaphor is designed to make that denial look ridiculous.
It works because it flips the usual hierarchy. Parents cast themselves as judges of behavior, but Locke recasts them as upstream engineers. The bitterness isn’t a mysterious moral decline; it’s an output. The line’s subtext is political as much as parental: if you want a rational, self-governing public, you don’t start with sermons or punishments, you start with education and example. Locke, the philosopher of liberal governance and the mind shaped by experience, is arguing that virtue is cultivated, not inherited, and that negligence is not neutral. It’s poison.
The context matters. In an era anxious about social order, Locke’s educational thinking (most famously in Some Thoughts Concerning Education) insisted that habits, discipline, and modeling matter more than authoritarian force. The sharpness comes from the image: “poisoned” implies not accidental mess but culpability. Parents “wonder” because denial is easier than responsibility, and Locke’s metaphor is designed to make that denial look ridiculous.
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