"Parents wonder why the streams are bitter, when they themselves have poisoned the fountain"
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It works because it flips the usual hierarchy. Parents cast themselves as judges of behavior, but Locke recasts them as upstream engineers. The bitterness isn’t a mysterious moral decline; it’s an output. The line’s subtext is political as much as parental: if you want a rational, self-governing public, you don’t start with sermons or punishments, you start with education and example. Locke, the philosopher of liberal governance and the mind shaped by experience, is arguing that virtue is cultivated, not inherited, and that negligence is not neutral. It’s poison.
The context matters. In an era anxious about social order, Locke’s educational thinking (most famously in Some Thoughts Concerning Education) insisted that habits, discipline, and modeling matter more than authoritarian force. The sharpness comes from the image: “poisoned” implies not accidental mess but culpability. Parents “wonder” because denial is easier than responsibility, and Locke’s metaphor is designed to make that denial look ridiculous.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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| Source | Verified source: MAKING THE YOUTH OF SUBSTANCE -THIRD EDITION (PRISCILLIA NWANDO ONYEKWELU, 2020)ID: agr2DwAAQBAJ
Evidence: ... John Locke of 1632-1704 centuries , once said “ Parents wonder why the streams are bitter , when they themselves have poisoned the fountain . ” What ever mother does at home , her daughter learns equally , and whatever a father does his ... Other candidates (1) Some Thoughts Concerning Education (John Locke, 1693)80.0% Thus parents, by humouring and cockering them when little, corrupt the principles of nature in their children, and wo... |
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"Parents wonder why the streams are bitter, when they themselves have poisoned the fountain." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/parents-wonder-why-the-streams-are-bitter-when-8095/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








