"People always tell me, 'Don't work so much', but I can't help it. I feel like all the things I've done are important to get to this adult stage and now I'm getting all these adult offers, so it's working"
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Her phrasing reveals the psychology of a former child star trying to control the narrative arc. “All the things I’ve done are important to get to this adult stage” translates to: none of that early work was disposable, and I’m not letting it be reduced to a cute prologue. There’s a defensive pride here, but also a strategic one. She’s claiming continuity, insisting that craft and accumulation matter in an industry that loves reinvention but punishes women for aging out of a persona.
The most telling word is “offers.” Not “roles” or “projects,” but offers: transactions, invitations, validation from gatekeepers. “So it’s working” lands like a relieved exhale. Not happiness exactly, more like confirmation that the relentless labor is paying dividends at the exact moment the culture starts taking her seriously.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dunst, Kirsten. (2026, January 16). People always tell me, 'Don't work so much', but I can't help it. I feel like all the things I've done are important to get to this adult stage and now I'm getting all these adult offers, so it's working. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-always-tell-me-dont-work-so-much-but-i-94888/
Chicago Style
Dunst, Kirsten. "People always tell me, 'Don't work so much', but I can't help it. I feel like all the things I've done are important to get to this adult stage and now I'm getting all these adult offers, so it's working." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-always-tell-me-dont-work-so-much-but-i-94888/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People always tell me, 'Don't work so much', but I can't help it. I feel like all the things I've done are important to get to this adult stage and now I'm getting all these adult offers, so it's working." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-always-tell-me-dont-work-so-much-but-i-94888/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






