"People are like stained - glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within"
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Then she flips the lighting. Darkness is not just misfortune but the loss of external validation - status, health, certainty, the social glow that makes everyone look better. In that absence, "true beauty" becomes a private power source. The moral pressure in the metaphor is unmistakable: if you only "shine" when you are lit from the outside, you are decorative, not resilient. If you can glow from within, you have substance.
The intent fits Kubler-Ross's clinical legacy. Working around dying patients, grief, and fear, she saw how quickly the "sun" goes away and how revealing that is. The quote is less a cozy uplift than a challenge to modern performance culture: who are you when the audience leaves, the metrics drop, the body fails, the plan collapses? It also smuggles in a gentler ethic. "Light from within" suggests agency, but not invulnerability; it implies care, meaning-making, and chosen dignity, not constant positivity. Beauty, here, is not prettiness. It is the capacity to remain human when circumstances stop helping.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: If Ignorance Is Bliss, Why Aren't There More Happy People? (John Lloyd, John Mitchinson, 2009) modern compilationISBN: 9780307460677 · ID: clxksg4zcZkC
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kubler-Ross, Elisabeth. (2026, February 12). People are like stained - glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-are-like-stained-glass-windows-they-2972/
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Kubler-Ross, Elisabeth. "People are like stained - glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within." FixQuotes. February 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-are-like-stained-glass-windows-they-2972/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People are like stained - glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-are-like-stained-glass-windows-they-2972/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








