"People are pretty much alike. It's only that our differences are more susceptible to definition than our similarities"
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“Differences are more susceptible to definition” is the needle. Definitions are tools, but they’re also weapons and shortcuts: race, class, region, party, identity, accent, taste. The stuff that can be named can be sorted, monetized, argued over, turned into a segment, a headline, a wedge. Similarities are messier. How do you define wanting to be safe, respected, not embarrassed, not alone? Those shared motives are harder to package, which is why they tend to vanish from public conversation even when they’re doing most of the driving.
As a journalist, Ellerbee is also critiquing her own industry’s incentives. News thrives on contrast and conflict because contrast is legible. Similarity is slow; it doesn’t “break.” The subtext is a warning about over-reading difference into every disagreement and under-reading the basic human continuity underneath it.
The quote works because it doesn’t romanticize unity; it indicts classification. It suggests our problem isn’t that we’re radically alien to each other, but that our culture is better at describing what separates us than what binds us, and it rewards that habit until it feels like truth.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ellerbee, Linda. (2026, January 15). People are pretty much alike. It's only that our differences are more susceptible to definition than our similarities. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-are-pretty-much-alike-its-only-that-our-153758/
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Ellerbee, Linda. "People are pretty much alike. It's only that our differences are more susceptible to definition than our similarities." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-are-pretty-much-alike-its-only-that-our-153758/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People are pretty much alike. It's only that our differences are more susceptible to definition than our similarities." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-are-pretty-much-alike-its-only-that-our-153758/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.






