"People are scared to death of dying. I am the opposite"
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Then comes the pivot: “I am the opposite.” No explanation, no memoir-ish softening. The bluntness is the point. Caldwell isn’t merely claiming bravery; she’s claiming a different orientation to existence, one that refuses the cultural script where death is treated as the ultimate failure and youth as a moral duty. As a 20th-century popular novelist who wrote sweeping historical and spiritual dramas, she’s also signaling a writer’s intimacy with mortality: fiction trains you to inhabit endings, to watch characters move toward consequences. There’s a professional subtext here: someone who spends her life constructing lives may feel less mystified by their closure.
The line’s power is its audacity. It dares the reader to ask whether fear of death is “natural,” or just well-trained. By presenting fear as the norm and her stance as the reversal, Caldwell invites a more unsettling possibility: maybe the opposite of fearing death isn’t recklessness, but clarity.
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| Topic | Mortality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Caldwell, Taylor. (2026, January 16). People are scared to death of dying. I am the opposite. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-are-scared-to-death-of-dying-i-am-the-117341/
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Caldwell, Taylor. "People are scared to death of dying. I am the opposite." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-are-scared-to-death-of-dying-i-am-the-117341/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People are scared to death of dying. I am the opposite." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-are-scared-to-death-of-dying-i-am-the-117341/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.









