"People become attached to their burdens sometimes more than the burdens are attached to them"
About this Quote
The intent is not to scold people for having problems, but to puncture the romance of being weighed down. In Shaw's theater, self-deception is rarely accidental. People keep their burdens because those burdens do social work: they justify inertia, win sympathy, ward off risk, and provide a ready-made narrative ("If only not for this..."). A burden can be a shield against change. If you lay it down, you lose the story that explains you, and you're suddenly responsible for what comes next.
Subtextually, Shaw is also pointing at institutions and habits - class expectations, moral dogmas, respectability - that look oppressive yet can be emotionally convenient. The burden might be an unfulfilling job, a grievance, a feud, a guilt. Each offers clarity: a fixed role, a stable complaint, a reason not to renegotiate your life.
Context matters: Shaw wrote in an age obsessed with duty, propriety, and moral seriousness, and he made a career of mocking those poses. The line reads like a compressed stage direction for modernity: watch how people perform their suffering, then ask what they get paid in meaning to keep it.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shaw, George Bernard. (2026, January 17). People become attached to their burdens sometimes more than the burdens are attached to them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-become-attached-to-their-burdens-sometimes-29160/
Chicago Style
Shaw, George Bernard. "People become attached to their burdens sometimes more than the burdens are attached to them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-become-attached-to-their-burdens-sometimes-29160/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People become attached to their burdens sometimes more than the burdens are attached to them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-become-attached-to-their-burdens-sometimes-29160/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











