"People can't help how they look"
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A Todd Solondz line this blunt is less a plea for kindness than a trapdoor under our self-congratulation. "People can't help how they look" reads like an elementary moral, the sort of thing you’d teach a kid on a playground. Solondz uses that simplicity the way he uses suburbia: as a clean surface that makes the rot underneath more visible.
The intent is pointedly anti-poetic. No metaphor, no escape hatch into personality or "inner beauty". Just the crude fact of bodies as fate. In Solondz’s world, appearance isn’t a neutral attribute; it’s a social sentence, a pretext for cruelty, pity, desire, revulsion. The line’s quiet sting is that it exposes how often we treat looks as evidence of character, as if the face were a résumé and the body a confession.
The subtext is accusation aimed at the audience as much as at the characters: you already know this, and you still judge anyway. The phrase "can’t help" suggests helplessness, but it also implies our own choice point. If they can’t help it, then what does it say about us that we keep reacting as though they could?
Contextually, Solondz’s films orbit the humiliations people endure when they don’t fit the aesthetic and sexual economies of everyday life. He’s interested in the awkward gap between liberal pieties and lived behavior, where empathy gets replaced by voyeurism and "tolerance" becomes another form of condescension. The line works because it sounds like decency while indicting the mechanisms that make decency so hard to practice.
The intent is pointedly anti-poetic. No metaphor, no escape hatch into personality or "inner beauty". Just the crude fact of bodies as fate. In Solondz’s world, appearance isn’t a neutral attribute; it’s a social sentence, a pretext for cruelty, pity, desire, revulsion. The line’s quiet sting is that it exposes how often we treat looks as evidence of character, as if the face were a résumé and the body a confession.
The subtext is accusation aimed at the audience as much as at the characters: you already know this, and you still judge anyway. The phrase "can’t help" suggests helplessness, but it also implies our own choice point. If they can’t help it, then what does it say about us that we keep reacting as though they could?
Contextually, Solondz’s films orbit the humiliations people endure when they don’t fit the aesthetic and sexual economies of everyday life. He’s interested in the awkward gap between liberal pieties and lived behavior, where empathy gets replaced by voyeurism and "tolerance" becomes another form of condescension. The line works because it sounds like decency while indicting the mechanisms that make decency so hard to practice.
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