"People expect us to be different, but we're not. We're very similar people, and it's because we're so similar and close to each other that we make each other laugh - in fact we make each other laugh more than we make anyone else laugh"
About this Quote
The engine of the quote is the pivot from public expectation to private chemistry. Edmondson frames similarity not as boring sameness, but as the precondition for surprise. “Because we’re so similar and close… we make each other laugh” suggests that the funniest moments aren’t manufactured for the crowd so much as overheard from an intimate, shared language: the same references, rhythms, and micro-observations that only land when two people are tuned to the same frequency. Comedy here is less “genius” than feedback loop.
That last clause - “we make each other laugh more than we make anyone else laugh” - is the real tell. It subtly relocates the audience from the center of the performance to the periphery of a relationship. The crowd becomes a witness to something primary happening between the comedians, not the reason it happens. In the context of double acts and ensemble comedy, it’s an argument that the most durable humor is relational: built out of trust, repetition, and the permission to be ridiculous in front of someone who already knows your worst version. The mystique isn’t that they’re different from us; it’s that they’ve found a collaborator who makes ordinary similarity combustible.
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| Topic | Funny Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Edmondson, Adrian. (2026, January 17). People expect us to be different, but we're not. We're very similar people, and it's because we're so similar and close to each other that we make each other laugh - in fact we make each other laugh more than we make anyone else laugh. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-expect-us-to-be-different-but-were-not-39501/
Chicago Style
Edmondson, Adrian. "People expect us to be different, but we're not. We're very similar people, and it's because we're so similar and close to each other that we make each other laugh - in fact we make each other laugh more than we make anyone else laugh." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-expect-us-to-be-different-but-were-not-39501/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People expect us to be different, but we're not. We're very similar people, and it's because we're so similar and close to each other that we make each other laugh - in fact we make each other laugh more than we make anyone else laugh." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-expect-us-to-be-different-but-were-not-39501/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

