"People feel I don't mix much, but I'm working at it"
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Then she adds the disarming pivot: “but I’m working at it.” That line can be heard as earnest self-improvement, but it also reads like survival strategy. When an industry rewards extroversion as professionalism, introversion gets framed as a flaw. By presenting sociability as a project, Joseph converts a personality trait into labor - measurable, correctable, presentable. It’s the language of coaching and PR: I hear the critique, I’m managing it, don’t write me off.
The subtext is bigger than shyness. It’s a person negotiating visibility, scrutiny, and the assumption that public women owe the public access. There’s a sadness to the modesty of the sentence, too: the self is kept small to keep the room calm. In seven words, she captures the modern predicament of being labeled from the outside and trying to edit yourself into acceptability without admitting how exhausting that edit can be.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Joseph, Nafisa. (2026, January 16). People feel I don't mix much, but I'm working at it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-feel-i-dont-mix-much-but-im-working-at-it-115484/
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Joseph, Nafisa. "People feel I don't mix much, but I'm working at it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-feel-i-dont-mix-much-but-im-working-at-it-115484/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People feel I don't mix much, but I'm working at it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-feel-i-dont-mix-much-but-im-working-at-it-115484/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.



