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Justice & Law Quote by Gay Talese

"People go to restaurants for so many different reasons. To court a girl, to make some deal. Maybe to talk to some lawyer about how to get an alimony settlement better than they got last week"

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Talese takes the romantic glow we project onto restaurants and swaps it for fluorescent lighting. The line starts with a generous premise - “so many different reasons” - then quickly turns the dining room into a stage for transactions: courtship, business, litigation. It’s funny because it’s almost too true, and because Talese refuses the sentimental alibi that eating out is about cuisine. The meal is incidental; the real menu is human motive.

The craft is in the escalation. “To court a girl” nods to the classic restaurant fantasy, the date as a miniature movie. “To make some deal” punctures that fantasy with the blunt language of commerce. Then Talese delivers the kicker: “Maybe to talk to some lawyer…” The specificity of “alimony settlement” turns the restaurant into a confessional booth with table service, and “better than they got last week” adds a darkly comic serial quality - not just divorce, but the ongoing optimization of divorce. It’s the cadence of a reporter who knows that the sharpest social commentary often lives in casual observation, not grand pronouncements.

Contextually, this is vintage New Journalism sensibility: the public space as a diagnostic tool for private lives. Talese isn’t just describing why people eat out; he’s mapping a mid-century-to-late-century America where intimacy and negotiation blur, where status and strategy ride alongside the bread basket. The restaurant becomes a neutral territory for messy desires - a place to perform control while your life is, quietly, being rearranged.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Talese, Gay. (2026, January 15). People go to restaurants for so many different reasons. To court a girl, to make some deal. Maybe to talk to some lawyer about how to get an alimony settlement better than they got last week. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-go-to-restaurants-for-so-many-different-168879/

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Talese, Gay. "People go to restaurants for so many different reasons. To court a girl, to make some deal. Maybe to talk to some lawyer about how to get an alimony settlement better than they got last week." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-go-to-restaurants-for-so-many-different-168879/.

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"People go to restaurants for so many different reasons. To court a girl, to make some deal. Maybe to talk to some lawyer about how to get an alimony settlement better than they got last week." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-go-to-restaurants-for-so-many-different-168879/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Gay Talese

Gay Talese (born February 7, 1932) is a Journalist from USA.

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